Varanasi (Banares) India – I see dead people

Varanasi (Banares), India is the city of the dead. This is where millions of pilgrims come to pray, meditate, bathe in the River Ganges, and cremate their dead by the banks. Not many places have fascinated me to such an extent. It’s packed with extremes and intensity like I’ve never seen before.

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Varanasi, India’s holiest city

Arriving in Varanasi was a bit of a shock to say the least. Apart from the fact that we got scammed within the first hour of arrival, we were met by extremities that made deep impressions, fascinated us or were unpleasant. In the hordes of people, there were holy men devoted to their religion, street children, mutants, prostitutes and public urinators, just to name a few. 

One of the things that raised my eyebrows was seeing people peeing in public. For instance, I was taking the above photo of the cows when the red-shirted guy entered the frame and relieved himself.

Public urination is not at all uncommon in India. I saw many men and women urinating in the streets during my time there, especially in Uttar Pradesh.

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The labyrinthic alleys in Banares

Boat ride on River Ganges

Varanasi is a very intense place with lots of things to see and do. One of my favorite experiences was the boat ride on River Ganges. You can take the trip in the morning, experience the most amazing sunrise (it’s breathtaking!), and see locals do their morning rituals (bathing, shaving, brushing their teeth and performing puja (praying ritual).

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You can also take the boat ride in the evening, where you’ll experience the Ganga Aarti (evening ritual with fire and music) at 5pm near the Dasaswamedh Ghat. We did both trips, and I’d recommend you do the same – it’s only $2 for an hour.

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Varanasi Ghats

Varanasi has almost 100 ghats, which are riverfront steps leading to the banks of the River Ganges. A walk along Varanasi’s ghats is a fascinating experience, although you should be prepared for filth and to be hassled by vendors. It takes about 50 minutes to walk from one end to the other.

Some interesting ghats include:

Assi Ghat: A bit more quiet and not as chaotic.

Manikarnika Ghat: Also known as the burning ghat where you’ll come face to face with death

Dashashwamedh Ghat: The top attraction and where the famous Ganga aarti takes place.

Funeral pyres and a lesson about death

Many ghats are used for washing, but there are several designated for cremations.

Varanasi is the holiest city in India, and it is believed that if a person’s ashes are scattered here, their soul will achieve nirvana (liberation). At Manikarnika Ghat, which is the largest cremation site in Varanasi, you’ll see piles of wood stacked for burning. The atmosphere among the male family members is not sad. I saw mourners instead laugh, chat and play cards as the funeral preparations were carried out. Women are not allowed at the site for fear they will cry.

I saw my first Hindu cremation in Varanasi. Standing only 3-4 meters from the pyre, I witnessed how a leg suddenly fell out from the flames, and when the body-burner stuck and turned a stick in the fire, a charred head appeared.

Varanasi is a place that embraces death and puts it right in your face. It’s not a place for the squeamish.

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What made the greatest impact about the cremation rituals is the way Hindus handle and view death. You see dead people getting cremated in public and their ashes being tossed in the river. And just five meters from there, children are swimming, having fun, while moms are brushing their teeth and washing clothes with the exact same water. No one seems to mind. Death has become an everyday thing.

The holy, the naked and the cannibals

Another fascinating thing about Varanasi is the Sadhus. They’re the holy men and children of India, and normally they reside in caves, in the mountains or the woods. But because of the Kumbh Mela Festival, thousands were gathered in Varanasi to take a dip in the holy river.

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Some of the sadhus practice extreme asceticism by always being naked, others eat human flesh as part of a holy ritual. They’re usually very open and eager to talk, so have a chat with them if you like. Just be cautious and use common sense. There have been reports of rape, drugging and assaults, especially during the festivals. We visited several naga sadhus and had chai with the ones who seemed nice. You can easily judge if they are friendly or have an ulterior motive.

Things to do in Varanasi

• Visit Sarnath. It’s a holy place where Buddha supposedly held his first sermon after getting enlightened. Sarnath is only 10 km from Varanasi, and you can visit the place as a day trip for only $3.2 (including transportation and entrance fee).  
• Join a Ganga Aarti. It’s an evening ceremony that takes place at Dashashwamedh ghat every evening at 6.45.
• Take a walk in the Ghat area. You’re bound to see sadhus, snake charmers, spices, temples and lots and lots of shops. It’s free, and I promise: You won’t be bored. 

Where to stay in Varanasi

Shiva Ganges View Guest House – Situated in the best rated area in Varanasi, this family run hotel has an excellent location. There’s a 24-hour front desk and balcony. Click here to see the latest prices. 

Where to eat in Varanasi

You’ll find some of the best food at the Lotus Lounge. It’s fresh, tasty and while meat is generally an absolute no-no anywhere near the river, here you can order chicken (and yummy pancakes!).

Where’s the most fascinating place you’ve been?

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